how do you pray? for whom do you pray? i find myself praying for those that i love and care about most often. praying for things happening in their lives, praying for those that don't have a relationship with God, and praying that i can be a witness to them. recently i realized that i haven't prayed to ask for help in my own life lately. and that i should take a moment to pray selfishly, for things i feel like i need more help doing.